You may think me old-fashioned but there’s something sexy and terrifying and hot about the mean men. You know the type - verbally abusive, superficially straight, nasty as all hell. It’s a rape fantasy, basically, and I think we mostly harbor one or more.

It frees us. It releases us from the responsibility of being gay. We’re taken, there’s no choice, and the stud in charge takes full charge, which is no small thing. They barrel through, calling you every name in the book. You’re guilty of nothing - hence, the fantasy of rape. Is it PC? No. But it triggers a vital element in every gay man. Do I want to be beaten up? Nope. But I do want to be conquered and I think most gay man want the same.

- Jack X

The gay online dating scene is my racket. It ain’t getting any easier. No, not the dating part - I mean the options.  They’re growing like a coral reef on steroids. New sites literally burst open every day, a lot of them way specific (wealthy dudes for wealthy dudes, fat guys for thin ones, twinks for dads, etc., etc.), and the market just keeps expanding. Jesus, there are a lot of us. You’d think we couldn’t even step outside without bumping into hard dick.

But I stumbled across a fairly new one that’s pretty cool. LifeOut. It’s a myspace for gay men, and it’s a myspace that isn’t annoying as shit because there’s no teenage/freak crap and bad music blasting from every page.  Check it out. I’m in there, too, under the name ‘Enrique’s Baby Daddy’.

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