“Ah, these kids today,” my Mom would say when I was little. And…I said it the other day listening to Gay Teens school me on the way things work nowadays — (research purposes only) — I don’t don’t date anyone under 21 years — but, things do move at a fast pace…let’s just say “the seven year itch” — has become the two month–kick him to the curb — thang…the research is for my pending cinema career (trying to shoot a short film)….which I will blog about on EnriqueCruzBlog.com …speaking of short films…here’s one that shows a butt cheek:
QUESTION: I’ve been dating a steady man for a month and we really like each other but, sexually I want him to be ‘rougher’ in bed. So, how do I tell him without sounding too perv?
ANSWER: I tossed this one out to a few friends and I’ll close with some of what they offer…but, for me, I think communication — and being able to talk to your sexual partner is so key to avoiding the cobwebs from growing….you should be able to grow together and the only way you can do that is by going back and forth….here’s some other tidbits:
1. One suggestion: do a sexual audit. Think about what he likes to do in bed. Some relationshiop experts think you should discuss what you want to happen in be in a neutral environment. Wrong, wrong, wrong…tell them right before you nut….in the heat of the moment, just yell out what you want…if you want that spanking…make sure you have him very very open….mentally and erectly speaking!! Hard cocks will bring out the freakiness …not talking over ham and eggs…that will just get you “the look.”
2. Encouragement is key, say “more,” when he does something close to what you like…most people have a hard time talking about rough sex…it ruins the moment to have a deep conversation about it…more action, more teaching (or a bad student that needs a spanking)…role playing in the bedroom will keep the juices flowing in more ways than one.
