What makes it the wildest ride in the hay you ever had? It’s got to be something like love. That man you’re fucking or being fucked by has to lock eyes with you. Once that’s done, he’s your’s or your his.

Gay men love sex, sure. But we want true love too, as dumb as it sounds. I’ve been with dudes cruising in their cars. I’ve seen one guy jump out at a red light to beat off in front of me. The best was the fuck I had at St. Mark’s Bathhouse. Total stud, beautiful, built, probably long since passed away. God knows, he took more cum in his ass than anyone, and this was the pre-AIDS days. Yet I so wanted to buy him a dozen roses and kiss him too. Love or sex? Is there really a conflict? Let’s go for all of it, men.

- Jack X

There’s no doubt about it - big cock takes a lot of blood to get hard. There are men who are hung ten or more inches but we’ve slept with them , too. They can’t get that monster hard. It almost makes me grateful to be a mere eight inches. I can’t get it up, I can keep it up. How how these stallions sometimes get it raging amazes me.

They normally wave it around, slap your face with with it. But it isn’t hard. It’s just too damn big. When you’re hung like a mule, you have to pump a lot to make that fucker hard. Even John Holmes couldn’t do it often. Some Porn stars could, like Michael Christopher and the fabulous Jack Wrangler. I’m happier with a smaller cock that’s stiff as all hell.

- Jack X

There’s something about older men. I’m an older man myself, now. When I was a boy I lusted for dads. There was that authority in their balls, that confidence in how they could fuck. I was so attracted to those studs, dripping sweat and precum.

The classic dad has a hairy chest, hairy nuts and an attitude. That last is the most impotant - he takes control. He’ll give you order and make you get him off. I also love dad ass. I tend to think it’s been neglected for years and that pucker hole has been ignored. I love smelling and tasting dad ass, even as I turn into a dad myself. His cock doesn’t have to be huge. His manliness in his that ass and that chest.

- Jack X

You may think me old-fashioned but there’s something sexy and terrifying and hot about the mean men. You know the type - verbally abusive, superficially straight, nasty as all hell. It’s a rape fantasy, basically, and I think we mostly harbor one or more.

It frees us. It releases us from the responsibility of being gay. We’re taken, there’s no choice, and the stud in charge takes full charge, which is no small thing. They barrel through, calling you every name in the book. You’re guilty of nothing - hence, the fantasy of rape. Is it PC? No. But it triggers a vital element in every gay man. Do I want to be beaten up? Nope. But I do want to be conquered and I think most gay man want the same.

- Jack X

Eating ass. I guess it’s because I equate it with eating pussy but there’s something really raw and masculine about a man who chows down on a hot ass. He’s preparing for his entry, he’s lubing up the chute, he’s getting ready to do what a real man does - fuck, and fuck hard.

Now, that’s not to say that it isn’t nearly as hot to see a stud with a dick in his mouth. All kinds of sexual primers come into play whenever we watch gay sex, and most of it has to do with exactly who is doing the sucking and eating the ass. The most important thing is, he’s got to be the man of our dreams. If he’s that studly, he can chow down on cum and not lose one iota of his maleness. Yet…I still am always drawn to the rimmer. I like the control he shows and I like how he’s pursuing a tunnel.

- Jack X